The Mission

ReaLife Coaching exists to Revitalize, Repair, and Restore relationships with God, yourself, and others through workshops, seminars, and group or individual coaching.

“Coaching has helped me focus on what is really important in life. Family, ministry, self-care, friends and FUN! I am enjoying life more and my family is happier too!”
— A.H. Mom, Missionary to College Students

ministry leaders and teams

  • Revitalize- bring more focus and unity to your team
  • Repair- move from discord to alignment in vision, purpose and ministry work
  • Restore- Step out of the fray of the hopeless despair of broken relationships and breakdown in the ministry team toward healing, forgiveness and health. There is hope for restoration and new life in ministry and life for you and your team.


  • Email or Call now to set up a consultation for you and your ministry to move toward Revitalization, Repair and Restoration.  Expect three to twelve months of group workshops and individual coaching to help your team get on track toward all that God is calling you to.  You can move back toward unity and love, bringing about the Kingdom-here on earth as it is in Heaven.


rebecca sassenrath

Rebecca enjoys coaching people and teams who are ready to get to work!  If you are ready to go deeper in relationships, calling and Life then she can help you get there. It is her passion to help you enjoy a better life, through gaining insight and skill in relating to others in a healthy and dynamic way. She specializes in helping individuals, ministry leaders and teams clear out distractions, enjoy deeper more meaningful purpose and thus, work more effectively together!  

Rebecca has enjoyed a wide breadth of training and variety of experiences in life that give her the unique ability to help people and teams thrive.  She and her husband, Paul, live in beautiful Northern California, where they enjoy tandem biking, hiking in the Sierras, and water skiing behind their vintage Monterey ski boat. They have three adult children whose spouses they hesitate to call “in-laws” ..."In- Loves" is a better fit— and six beautiful granddaughters; three in Boston and three in San Diego… which means that she is often flying or driving to one port city or the other!

what is the significance of these certifications?

international Coaches Federation, Associate Certified Coach (icf, acc)

The ICF is the highest accreditation organization in the world for coach training. This accreditation certifies that this coach is among the finest professional coaches in the industry and follows all the standards and requirements for coaching with integrity and regard for the client. 


western seminary, Certified Transformational Coach (CTC)

This robust program prepares the coach to coach at the highest level. With 160 hours of coach specific training, supervised coaching, mentoring, and an assessment exam, you will not only know about coaching, but you will be competent and ready to coach others in a wide range of contexts. This program is appropriate for individuals in ministry and marketplace settings.

Participants who pass the certification phase earn the designation Certified Transformational Coach, are listed on the Western CTC roster, and are included in Western-sponsored coaching initiatives. 

internal impact, certified high performance patterns coach

Discovering the Way People Work Best. Each person has a high performance pattern. Each person has only one high performance pattern. Each person's high performance pattern is unique. Now discover your own High Performance Pattern; how you work best. Through a process of analyzing your own successful stories you will be able to identify and be able to reproduce your own pattern in every situation.



Associate Certified Coach (ACC), 
International Coaches Federation

Certified Transformational Coach (CTC), Western Seminary

Certified High Performance Patterns Coach (HPP), Internal Impact

Bachelors of Science,
Counseling Psychology
and Bible Theology

William Jessup University, 2009

in process: 
Masters, Ministry and Leadership
Western Seminary

Youth and Family Ministry, 30+ years
Swim Instructor and Swim School Owner, 35+ years
Stephen’s Minister, 5 years
Genesis Process Addiction Relapse Prevention Specialist, 10+ years
Lay Counseling and Prayer support, 15+ years
Most Excellent Wife, 30+ years